The author who benefits you most is not the one who tells you something you did not know before, but the one who gives expression to the truth that has been dumbly struggling in you for utterance.
Patience is a grace made and cut out for suffering; patience is a sweet submission to the will of God, whereby we are content to bear anything that He is pleased to lay upon us. Patience makes a Christian invincible; it is like the anvil that bears all strokes. We cannot be men without patience. Passion does unman a man; it puts him beside the use of reason. We cannot be martyrs without patience; patience makes us endure (James 5:10).
We tend to use prayer as a last resort, but God wants it to be our first line of defense. We pray when there's nothing else we can do, but God wants us to pray before we do anything at all.
Most of us would prefer, however, to spend our time doing something that will get immediate results. We don't want to wait for God to resolve matters in His good time because His idea of 'good time' is seldom in sync with ours.